This Ones for the Fans

So it's been awhile since one of these, but I'm in that kinda mood. Today though, I'm not going to have a negative one, I'm going to give advice to people and put them in a positive light. Or something... hell I don't know where it's going, let's go for a journey.

Well I feel like talking. Hence the blog, but what to discuss... Oh how bout this one. My friend, we'll call him Jim had some happenings with this girl, let's call her Jamie. Oh and this is going to be a negative now. I could just retype the opening but I don't roll that way. Well Jim here did something that I can't mention... because I may have younger viewers. It wasn't sex, but it wasn't Jesus-approved. In the days that followed, Jim seemed to be annoyed every time Jamie tried to talk to him. Jim was saying that Jamie was cool, but not someone he wanted a relationship with... well being friends with Jamie as well, I know what she wants. Let's just say they aren't on the same page this time. But that leads me to this point:

I HATE LEAD ONS! It's only my most hated happening in all relationship related events. I hate it more than cheating. Sure it's bad and it hurts, but when it happens you know there's nothing. When someone is just leading you on... they toy with your emotions and it screws with your head. It's the dumbest thing ever, just flirting around, doing whatever and what not, but when it comes to anything more, NO SIR. My philosophy is don't do that shit if you have no interest. What I can understand is maybe you have some interest, but then you realize it's not the best thing for you right now. But then you cut it off clean. Just tell em that. Tell them a relationship isn't what you want, then end any of the games. If you two still wanna be friends, more power to you. But don't lead the person on. That annoys the shit out of me.

It may happen by accident, heck when I've grown feelings for someone and I guess you could call it an "accidental lead on," but I know nothing could come of it. Can't control who you grow interest for. But you can control how you handle the situation. I say this: If there is a legitimate chance at a relationship, say something. Who cares if it backfires. I had it backfire with someone, and I am still good friends with her. But if you know nothing can and won't happen... this situation is a bit sticky. I think if the person has a long-term partner... you don't try to mess that up. But if it's something like a long-term friendship one party is afraid to lose, or distance keeping it from happening. Go out there like a champ and tell her how you feel.

So I took a bit of a jump there, but here's a paragraph to sum it up. Lead ons suck. Don't do it, and don't get all pissy when they want a relationship. Well no duh she wants one you've ********** her. And if there's someone you like, tell em. Take a chance. Too often in my life have I not stepped up to the plate, and I've also been shot down. Let me tell you something: Not stepping up hurts more in the long run, because you just don't know what could've happened. So I encourage you, take a chance, you'll be better for it.