Relationships; they're everywhere. Whether you're in one or not, you've thought about them at some point. But what does this guy, a relationship failure, have to say about them? Well my friends, I have some advice and thought i'd like to share with the world, so sit down and enjoy. But what can advice can a guy that absolutely fails at them give? Very good advice. See without failure, I wouldn't know what not to do. Sounds desperately cliched I know, but you have to learn from mistakes and the past. I'm not going to give you don't do this or don't do that, but Lord knows I could. What I'm going to do is just ramble my thoughts together into a coherent thought. This should get interesting...
First off, I would like to say this. No matter how much you may deny it, you want/need a relationship. Yes, even you, emo kid that hates the world. It's human nature. We need that person in our lives that we can be with forever, tell anything, say I <3 you. We need that significant other in our lives. It's deeply rooted within us; the need for someone to share our life with. It's a good thing my friends, enjoy it. Although for those that don't have that person, it makes us lonely, sad, and just wishing we had that someone. But rest assured, that someone's out there, just waiting for you.
But we have to work to get there, we have to work to find the one that is meant to be with us forever. So this relationship broke off, yes it's sad. But it wasn't meant to be my friends. Well how do you know, Dave? You don't know right away champ. That's why we date, we break up, and do this and that. We're searching for that one person. But don't go nuts trying to find the person, it'll happen no worries.
Relationships don't work like they do in the movies, I'm sorry but it just doesn't. How often does a relationship fail in a movie? Almost never. How often do they fail in the real world? Almost always. So don't worry if your relationship failed, it's not the end of the world. But I'm not here to tell you to just accept the problems of relationships and roll with the punches, you gotta fight.
Relationships take work. They're not easy. Every couple goes through the same thing: They fight, they bicker, they have issues. But it's the ones that are meant to be that work through. One steps up and doesn't accept the end. He fights for the girl, or the girl fights for him, but either way, someone fights for that relationship. Sometimes the fight is futile, but you must always fight for it if you truly believe in it. One thing I've always done is fight for it. I wasn't going to just give up at the first sign of trouble, and neither should you.
SO in conclusion of this ramble: Relationships are hard, we need them as humans, everyone has someone(no worries you'll find her,) you gotta fight for the relationships, and never give up on finding your one. I added that last point because I wanna say it. Don't give up, don't lose hope. Love is out there, you'll find it when the time is right.
And here's Dr. Cox summing up everything I said in 60 seconds... Scrubs is a deep show.
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